Hello My Lovelies!
I have a follow-up to share with you all:
How could we forget the young lady in the 9 year, roller coaster of a relationship with a guy she'd dated since high school. He had a propensity for playing the "games of Amber Rose (bald-headed)" (c)Luvvie, and it was a twisty-turny of a mess for my letter writer.
Click here to see the original entry, "Roller Coaster".
Well, here's how she says she is making out since I answered her letter:
Before I wrote you, I knew that I needed to let that situation go. Sometimes hearing it from someone else is just the push you need.
One of your readers said something that really made me say “damn.” Monk said, “At some point, you stop being a victim and you're more so a participant.” That made me see things differently. I wanted no more parts of that game, so I quit. Thanks Monk!
I don’t speak to the ex often (maybe once a month, if that), and the conversations are always quick (oh, you’re alive? that’s what’s up). I’ve removed myself from the situation physically, but of course feelings are still there. But I’m working on putting me first. It’s a progress, but I can do it! Thanks for the advice PBG!
P.S. Where’s a good place to meet people?
We here at Hey, You Asked are so glad you are on the road to recovery from that toxic relationship! You go girl! Special thanks to Monk for typing the words that spoke to this young lady's heart!
As for a good place to meet people...when I find out, I'll be sure to let YOU know! lol!
In all things, I wish you love, light & clarity.
~pbg
