Hello All,
The "Black or White" love triangle from last week has spawned another letter from the woman in the middle of it all. Check it out:
Dear PBG,
I received and read the reply to my letter. I truly value our input this is why I turned to u for advice. I read my email to D. (white guy) and he was very impressed that I sought clarity and advice for myself before proceeding with this situation.
Upon reading the email to "Mr.F*ckEveryGirlInTheWorld" he was not so happy that there may be another guy in the picture. I had to ask him..."Did u think u had another hoodrat chickenhead to add to ur stats?" I told him our "relationship" was what it was....FUN! But it has ran its course...and I was always taught that if a MAN can decide in 6 mos. his intentions with you, cut him loose and move on! Grabbing scissors*
Ok....now new issue is how do I let down "The youngin" without hurting his feelings? He got pissed a few weeks ago when I told him that he wasn't my boyfriend. Hurting him is the last thing that I want to do......I am a Capricorn Woman and I can be a bit harsh so help me let him down easy.....and I need to do this ASAP before I fall victim to another amazing sex session! *shakes head and walks away*
You seem to have gotten yourself in a little jam, huh? I'm glad you cut that "philanthropic fella" off and have decided to take a chance on the Ivory Prince (make sure you put that pet name in your mental rolodex because it may come in handy one day). lol.
Well, I'll tell you right now that you've come to the wrong Zodiac sign asking about letting somebody down easy. I'm a Leo, and we're not particularly known for our gentle natures. *rawr* That youngin' is just going to have to roll with the punches.
I wonder why you feel like you need to let him down easy! He wants to be a big boy and d*ckmatize a grown woman, then let him deal with the break-up. Tell him it's over, point blank. You can be nice and give him the reason, the truth: "I've met someone that's going to offer me more in a relationship than you can and I'd like to pursue that." Simple. You don't owe him anything more than that. If he decides to spazz out behind that, that's only confirmation that you didn't need to be kickin' it with that kid anyway. He's trying to be "King Ding-a-Ling" but prone to tantrums?? Ha! That surely doesn't go together!! He may as well learn early that every woman isn't going to want him, no matter how well he's slangin' that thang! Break it off fast and clean, don't have anymore sex with him and work on building something nice with the man you have evidently chosen. He deserves all your time and attention so make sure there are no loose ends distracting you.
In this and all things, I wish you love, light & clarity.
~pbg
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